having “burnt pussy lips” H E L P

ok so usually your virgina is suppose to be the same color as the rest of your body but mine is a few shades darker than my skin color and makes me soooo insecure. for that exact reason i’m scared to have sex or even someone to go down on me because I don’t want them to look down and be like “why the fuck does it look like that??!!??”

since men have access to see perfect ones on the internet, i️ look and think well mine doesn’t look like any of these.. if anyone knows of ways that will lighten it up to the point it looks normal or any advice please leave comments!!