What should happen ???

I don’t like my bd’s cousin’s bm (lol keep up) my daughter is having a party I said the kids can come (his aunt their grandma usually has them) but their mom is NOT welcome at my daughters party. She knows that I don’t like her... so if she was to come I think she’d be coming looking for Trouble because she knows I don’t have all my marbles. He keeps making up reasons why she should come I kinda snapped at him because what are u doing. I’m allowing his family to come but she can not come and if that means the kids can’t come 🤷🏼‍♀️ oh well my daughter is turning one the kids are 5 months and 4yrs.

Their dad can bring them or their grandma but NOT THEIR MOM!!!

What’s wrong with me saying that?