Concerning prenatal visit

so today I went in for my 1st prenatal visit I'm 9 weeks, and this being my 2nd pregnancy I thought it would have been the same as my last, get a pap smear and hear the babies heartbeat. I thought it would be routine, but everything was so rushed he rushed the exam the nurse threw away the cup where the pee sample was supposed to go said, we'll do it next time which is in a month, and also the doctor said If I skipped prenatals it was fine kind of didn't answer any of my concerns or seem to care to care. So, I was wondering if this is normal? because this time around it's a different doctor and I didn't even get to hear my baby's heartbeat like I did with my son 😢