I can't orgasm 😖

Guys, I have an issue.

I'm 21 years old and have never had an orgasm. I'm sexually active, married actually, and I just can't orgasm. We've done everything, had lots of prolonged foreplay, and I can't climax. I've been trying to masturbate for YEARS and it does absolutely nothing. It's like tickling myself. I haven't tried sex toys, but I'm going to order one.

This has been incredibly frustrating for me emotionally. I feel like my body isn't cooperating and I'm missing out. It's not that I don't enjoy sex, I really do, I just want to be able to finally climax. Is there anything I can do to overcome this? Should I talk to my therapist about it or is that weird? Like I said, masturbating does nothing. Anyone have any encouragement?

Sincerely,

Permanently sexually frustrated.

UPDATE:

GUYS IT FINALLY HAPPENED!!!! After all of this frustration and years of struggle. You know what did it?? Oral, but with me kneeling over him. I know that’s filthy and TMI but I’m so freaking happy right now. (Still riding that flushed high haha) but it was fucking BOMB.