Autism.

First let me start this conversation by saying that I do not care if anyone thinks my son has autism he is still my world! But someone messaged me and told me they “fear” my son has autism I got a little upset because I wouldn’t cate even if he did because he is still my boy! But she was so concerned because when he gets happy he flaps his arms? My child is only one! And he happens to get a little extra excited and will throw his arms all over the place and smile and laugh and say dadda when he father comes home. I personally believe she is out of her mind and just wants to make herself feel better, but my child interacts with me and my husband very well and was a preemie when he was born and we have now been told he is very advanced for his age, he started to do things earlier than boys his age at normal gestational. Anyone else believe she is out of her mind and just looking for a fight?