Not enough sex?

Hi there, just a quick question. Trying to find out if more ladies have had issues like this or if it’s just me.

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time, but me living at my parents house and him trying to find his own place (working six days a week) we don’t get to see each other often.

Now, this week we’ve spend together because of the holidays which is just wonderful. But after two days of kinda rough sex (we like it that way) it didn’t matter how wet I was, penetration was just too painful. Even though we have really rough sex, we both take the time with foreplay. He like, reaaaaallly takes the time to go down on me, to make sure I’m all relaxed and well.

Today was our last day together and we tried it again, because (obviously) I wanted to. But it was so painful he couldn’t even get the tip in.

We only see each other like this (so with sex and all) about one or two times a month, so I’m wondering if this has anything to do with it.

Also, this only started recently and stopped for a minute. We haven’t had this problem in the past.