They give infants to anyone

Okay, not anyone lol but am I the only one irrationally thinking I won’t even know how to hold my baby when they lay it on my chest? I watch lots of delivery videos on YouTube and the moms are so gracifully calming the baby and it eventually stops crying... what if I’m just there not knowing what I’m doing and can’t stop it from crying?? I’m not pregnant yet but we’re TTC in August. The youngest baby I’ve held is like 3 month old. I did hold my nephew for .5 seconds after he was born before his mom started yelling SUPPORT HIS HEAD

Why don’t babies come with manuals