Ladies, would you be with a man that has kids already?! 👶🏻👶🏼👶🏽👶🏾👶🏿

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Only if there is no baby mama( if she passed away). I don’t need more stress in my life and another woman would cause me stress. It might sound harsh but that’s the only way it could work for me. That being said- I would never try to replace her or try to deny them info about their mom, I would actually encourage their father to tell them about her. I just don’t want to deal with potential drama that comes with baby mama, as I’ve seen so many bad outcomes. Sorry if it offends anyone

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Depends on how old I am and where I’m at in life. But I’m too young to be with somebody that has children right now

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Definitely depends but it’s not an automatic no.
Now if he has 5 kids with 5 different women, nah gonna have to pass. I don’t need that many kids or that much potential baby mama drama. Plus, that’d just be a red flag in general!

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It’s hard and not for everyone but when you meet a man that’s worth it for you it doesn’t matter so much. You just kinda adjust!

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i don’t want kids. so no.

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Depends on the situation with the baby mama(s). If they’re still around but only for the kids, I’m fine. But if she’s trying to get back together with him through the kids that’s no good.

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I wouldn't because I only want to be with women...

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I second @marr ^^^^^^^ ask me st 18 and I’d say nope. Ask me at 30 and I’d say sure! 
As long as he’s a good dad! I could never date someone who doesn’t care for his kids!

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I'm not going to say yeah but I won't say no either

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Haven’t met a single situation where it was easy. Actually I lie. I know one girl who has an easy time and the mom of the kids is great and the kids are MUCH older. My sister, on the other hand, has a TERRIBLE time. Her husband’s ex gf is a NUT JOB and the kid is THE DEVIL!!!! I don’t know how she does it. I praise those people who stick by their man when the situation is tough. I don’t know if I could do it. I really don’t.

Ladies, would you be with a man that has kids already?! 👶🏻👶🏼👶🏽👶🏾👶🏿

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