So my father left us when we where kids. he has popped in and out of my life when he sees fit ever since. it has been 6 months since we spoke ( a small text exchange) and 4 years since I have seen him. however my hubby and I decided we wanted to start TTC (dad heard this on the grapevine as don't know how to contact atm as his number not working). He has now decided he has a "right" as he put it to see any future grandchildren. I don't want my child being messed around like that so I don't think he has any rights. this was a row we had via Facebook of all things when he visited my sister. what do you guys think? should he meet his grandchild? am I being to harsh?