Husband not excited

My husband and I agreed to try for a third baby. Now that I’m pregnant he is having a melt down with my other two, saying having a third is stupid and he can’t even handle two (yet before I was pregnant things were fine) and has told me on more than one occasion he wants me to get rid of it. Then the next minute he is talking saying he hopes it’s a boy. I want to be excited about this baby but he is making it very difficult to get excited. I can’t talk to him about it. I’m becoming very depressed because it was a decision we made together and now it’s like he’s trying to back out because it’s a reality now.

Edit : thank you ladies, this made me realize I’m not alone. I talked with him and told him he is making my last pregnancy upsetting because I feel like I can’t get excited or talk with him about anything pregnancy related. He said he was going to try to be more supportive. I love being a mom, and don’t get me wrong I know three will be a lot of work. My mom had four, she was a single mom and worked 3 jobs so I know if she can do it, I can do it. I think he is making himself overwhelmed. He did this with our first and had horrible panic attacks but tried to tell me it wasn’t because of out soon to be daughter. Once the baby was here the panic attack’s stopped, so I feel like this time around he is making things more difficult knowing there is going to be a baby in the house soon.