When my husband and I get in an argument there is no make up sex or an I’m sorry. He will take that fight and drag it for sometimes a week or Two.

He can be very mean. Not physically but verbally. He was sleeping today and I was taking care of my step child and my child and his child says to mine I’m going to snap you! They were fighting. I came out and said “if yo have nothing nice to say don’t say it. That’s not how we talk to eachother.” So he hears me say this and yells don’t you dare single out my child here you go acting crazy. I said excuse me I don’t think you heard what he said. He said I did don’t tell my child what to do.

So I walked away to hang up clothes and calmly say I don’t appreciate you talking to me that way when I am talking to the kids telling them to use nice words.

He said you are so fucking annoying you should just leave. I said well the house doesn’t clean itself and the kids can’t take care of themselves unless you’re going to do it. He got quiet. Is why he is saying considered verbal abuse?

He has been so mean to me telling me I’m annoying he’s done with me and other things and my heart breaks.

How do you love someone so strongly who treats you this way?

When he’s a jerk I just let it go and think tomorrow is a new day. I don’t know if I am the only person who wakes up and just lets it all go. But no he holds on to arguments!!

Anyone else deal with this? Maybe some advice?