Sex Life Help

Hi everyone,

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and started having sex a couple months ago. And since, he has been a little obsessed about making me cum/orgasm during sex. I use to be able to have an orgasm just from oral but since we’ve started having vaginal sex it’s been impossible. I get real close but never go over the edge 😒. And I can tell he’s holding his excitement when we have sex to make sure I cum first but he just ends up tiring himself out since it’s been taking me so long to get there.

Mind you he is still incorporating oral but even that does not have the same effect it once did.

The sex is already amazing without it but I would love to have an orgasm during sex but don’t want him to be so focused on something that may or may not happen at the time. A couple times I faked an orgasm to give him the “que” that it was okay for him to cum now lol this is ridiculous 🤭

Please give me advice on this situation !