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I’m so scared to have sex because I heard it’s so painful and you bleed a lot is it true ? HELP

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If you're aroused, relaxed, and really wet it shouldn't really hurt. Uncomfortable maybe because you've never had anything like that up there. If it hurts then try more foreplay, lube, and relax your muscles down there.

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when i had sex for the first time it was amazing .. my mom told me it hurt and it would stretch and I would cry and all kinds of stuff to scare me but to me it felt good I didn't bleed either

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It's different for different people! The first time I did it, it was a bit painful so we stopped and tried again and it was better.! I personally never bled! But one's experience could be totally different from another's!

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If you’re scared, it’s not time. Just wait.

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Not everyone bleeds and if they do its not a lot. It's nothing excruciating but can be a little uncomfortable the first few times. Before you have sex you should go see a GYN for a pelvic exam and to talk about sex. You can ask all the questions you want and you will get the best answers from them. It is 100% private between you and the doctor as well. You should also consider birth control.

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I was in some pain and bled, but it gets better! No fears, if you have have a trustworthy partner then go for it.

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my first time didn’t hurt but it did bleed! i guess it didn’t hurt because i was really relaxed and calm bc i was doing it with somebody i loved and also bc he fingered me a lot before sex. but the feeling it’s a little weird at first! it’s like when you kiss for the first time, it’s something different from all the stuff you have felt before! my bf was a virgin too, but our first time was surprisingly really good, but it got a lot better after some practice haha

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Just wait a little while until you aren't scared.

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Some girls bleed a lot, some don't at all. I just had a tiny spot of blood probably like an hour or two after my first time. It does hurt a lot tho but it doesn't have to be as bad as they say. I was super horny and my body was relaxed from a heated make out session n foreplay. The only reason it hurt me so much was cuz he tried pushing in slow all the way at first but then just went for it which was better for me cuz the pain was over with. That first push to break the hymen, if you wanna go slow don't go too slow, that'll just prolong the pain.  After that, you can take it slow and if you're relaxed enough and  he's being gently you'll start to feel some pleasurable tingles.

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