Water births and delivery

First time mum here and doing so much research into the best options for delivery..

Mannnnnn

It is so hard trying to work out what is the best thing to do!!!

I was set on having a natural birth.. possibly water birth... but then I’m reading

DONT squat then YES squat

NO epidural then YES epidural

Stuff a natural birth go no pain and enjoy it..

Then

Go natural you have more control and quicker recovery time!

I’m only small size 6 so I’m assuming my vjayjay is small so I’m going to tear or need to be cut.. and if I need to be cut that means no water birth?

Seriousllllllyyy I would love some help! X