Anxiety and nervous about announcing - anyone else ?

RAS • Mommy to Mila Rose 9-2-18 & Isla Lily 03-21-20 🎀💗🙏🏻

I’m 8 weeks 1 day today. We plan on telling my family tomoroew at my parents place with all the siblings spouses and kids. And then Sunday at my husbands parents house. I’m getting nervous and anxiety about telling them I guess I don’t know what questions they will have and I’m very stern on them not telling a single person and I want to ensure they really don’t tell anyone bc I want to tell my best friends after them and I don’t want aunts and uncles telling my cousins since it’s our news to share or them telling friends that we can care less about it. I get they would be happy. But it’s our first pregnancy tried for almost 2 years had to do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and second transfer worked ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 our families also don’t know our story or <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> basically whatever we went through. Just my older brother and wife. We never told them when the second transfer would be. Anyone else felt the same way about telling people and I’m trying to plan when to tell my best friends in person my next scan is 9 weeks 4 days on 1/22 and debating if I should tell them after. 3 of our best friendw new about our <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> but not when we did the 2nd Transfer. I feel like I’m putting to much pressure on my self 🙈🙈