Gender disappointment? Read please.
If you are disappointed with the gender of your kid please. Please. Process your feelings and get over it before your kid can understand you. Its ok to feel disappointed, I get it. That being said, I was the youngest daughter, and I was "supposed" to be a son. A boy. I was supposed to be Aaron. And I felt guilty, AS A CHILD FOR BEING A GIRL.
So please, get over your feelings and never mention your sadness that your child started out in the womb already not being good enough.