If you are disappointed with the gender of your kid please. Please. Process your feelings and get over it before your kid can understand you. Its ok to feel disappointed, I get it. That being said, I was the youngest daughter, and I was "supposed" to be a son. A boy. I was supposed to be Aaron. And I felt guilty, AS A CHILD FOR BEING A GIRL.

So please, get over your feelings and never mention your sadness that your child started out in the womb already not being good enough.