how do i make my first time hurt less?

Question

my bf and i have been trying over and over to have sex but honestly each time i couldn't bare the pain and told him to stop. it hurts so much that i can't help but cry afterwards. this happened about 4-5 times and i still can't bring myself to take it in all the way. please please tell me if there's a way to make it hurt less other than lubrication. i really want to do it and i know he does too.

Answer

More foreplay before hand will help. If it’s the inside that hurts, it means you’re horny horny enough and the cervix hasn’t adjusted to allow room for him

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relax, and more foreplay. your muscles tighten up when you get nervous, so stressing it and anticipating the pain is only making it worse. try doing some other stuff first and taking more time to get to the actual p in v sex. also, try being on top so you can control the pace of things, since he isn’t the one feeling any pain. gravity will also be your friend here. good luck!

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What helped me was to go very very slowly. It drove him a little crazy but I literally would take a little bit in at a time, pause to breathe, and then a little more.

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I agree with more foreplay. also, it sounds weird, but It still hurts for me sometimes, and it helps a ton if he puts it in, pulls out and puts it back in. idk why but it never hurts when he puts it back in the second time. 😂 try different positions too, maybe what you're trying isn't working for you. and try to relax! it must be stressful for you right now and that won't help anything

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Yes, foreplay. Try your best not to think too much, relax as much as you can it'll be easier access. relax your legs lol. good luck.

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