Gender reveal and baby shower opinions needed

Calie

So when all goes well we will have our gender scan in April. My husband's family is here and Utah, mine is Nebraska and Iowa. I have two besties who want to plot even thjough it's early. So do you think it's ok to have a gender reveal/shower at 24 weeks at home and then a baby shower in another state (40 peolle.there who can't make it here) or does that sound silly. and when do you have a baby shower?