Parenting.. long post

For all the ladies who think parenting is glamorous when you see parents who look like they’ve just walked out of a beauty pageant after giving birth and a week later they look like they are ready for a photo shoot no bags under there eyes from sleepless nights , a tummy that looks like they’ve had a tummy tuck and you are sat over here looking like you’ve been dragged through a war zone, your still walking like a penguin two weeks after birth because your vagina feels like it’s going to fall out of your arse, you have flab and rolls in places you didn’t even know exist the bags under your eyes look like you’ve been punched in the face a good 50 times and you’ve been sat in the same dressing gown for a good week and half with no chance of even having time to put a brush through your hair let alone wash it! Your days turn into week and before you know it you don’t even know what day your on.. well I’m just here to say I’m shitting proud of my bags and my flab I don’t envy the people who look beautiful and look like they’ve had a beauty transformation over night I’m happy as a pig in shit in the dressing gown iv not taken off since giving birth and the beautiful brown bags under my eyes because I look at my two beautiful boys and think shit this is what I created this is what I achieved and for me it’s worth it all. Don’t let anyone or anything get you down girls you just birthed a beautiful baby and the majority of us are all sat at home looking the same and doing the same so don’t feel down or shit about yourself think about what you just achieved ( little picture of me before birth so you can see the difference 😂) it happens to us all girls it happens to us all!