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Do I not get an opinion??
Sorry guys, I haven't done shit but rant for the past week. But I really think hormones are getting to me making everything annoying as hell. My daughter's father will not let me have an opinion. On anything. Like today I was sitting on the stairs and I noticed a bunch of roaches. And so I said that we needed to bomb the house. Or I'm not bringing Anya to that particular house (they have two). So he's like why that's stupid. I'm like because I don't want roaches crawling on my daughter and her stuff. He laughed and told me I'm overreacting and roaches don't crawl on people. 5 minutes earlier he brushed an ant off my back....
I pointed this out and he said I said roaches..
So I'm like ok but I have another house that I live in. It doesn't have roaches or ants. If it crawls into her stuff and I bring them in that house, I get in trouble. And he's just like, are you done yet.
Then later I told him we had a prenatal appointment. He asked for details like what are we doing jere. So I told him and he said so like school. I didn't see the humor so I said no and tried to explain why they're different. He cut me off and said just stop, I'm not even listening. I tell him my plans for childcare hoping we could have a nice conversation. He said ok and walked away. I asked his opinion. He said he doesn't care. He keeps calling me fat. When I told him I wanted a bikini he said I really shouldn't. I told him pregnant women look great in bikinis. He said yea, just not you. I'm really sick of the emotional abuse and I honestly want him to have no parts of my daughter's life; especially if he thinks he can just talk to women in that way. And he does. So do his shit friends. Of course I'm not going to take him out of her life, I'm just really sick of him taking his shitty attitude out on me...