Im not going to lie I haven’t taken my son to the dentist. I was told they do very minimal as to not traumatize kids at the dentist and I do not agree with flouride treatments for kids. His first appointment will be soon, I only mentioned it cause I’m honest. Lol I also didn’t start brushing until about 6 months ago. I didn’t realize he had that many teeth until then.

He is almost 2 next week. No Nuk since before thanksgiving

. No soppy cups with milk only water. Minimal sweets. Lots of rinsing and water he always has a cup of water it’s like his security blanket. Milk in sippy cups was stopped like 6months ago and no milk at night for a very long time. So only at meals in regular cups.

My sons front teeth are whiter than the rest only at the bottom edges.

He loves brushing his teeth but doesn’t let me help and really brush them and I don’t want brushing to be negative so I usually let it go after I get a couple good scrubs.

Is this normal ? I’m not sure if it’s decay or grinding or what.

Also how do oh get your toddlers to let you brush for them before or after they do it themselves?