I was a victim of dv for years it took me alot to get away from him .when I finally did it was a blessing an a gift because I almost lost everything .I went thru humiliation from Every one that wasn't in my shoes around me ,people that didn't understand what it was to be abused by someone that thought loved you an I'm just glad I'm here today I don't wish that on no one God bless those who are or have been in my shoes ...An if u can get away don't wait leave.