questioning my friendship w/ bff

I have depression and anxiety, I have been getting help for it and in August my husband and I decided to start ttc... my best friend since we were 12, my maid of honor in my wedding, and someone I have always gone to said to me, "how are you going to take care of a baby when you can't even take care of yourself?" I was blown away... even though I have depression doesn't mean I wouldn't be able to take care of my baby... I'm so hurt by her comments and lately she just seems like she is hoping for the worst for me and my husband... we just bought a house and she said I don't think you can afford it, you don't work, he's going to leave you cause you don't contribute... Jeff is a banker and he told me he just wants me to get better and be happy... I think I lost a friend but gained an amazing husband

sorry for the long rant, but needed to vent