MY SEXY IS AWKWARD.

Okay, so I’m fairly new to this app, and I love it. It has made me feel so much better about things and I love reading everyone’s stories.

My man and I have been together for 5 years, so we are pretty good about knowing what each other like and dislike. We are SO BAD about getting into a sex routine, though. Most of the time, we literally do the exact same thing because we know that’s what we like, which is great. BUT, I think we both could use a change! I do think there are things I could do to get him turned on and really be interested, so give me tips!!

Months ago, I bought a red two piece lingerie outfit and once I got home and seen it on me, I never put it back on again. This is partly because I’ve gained about 20 pounds and it makes me look like a granny. Well, a few nights ago, he remembered I had it and asked me to put it on. I seriously did not want to (because it didn’t make me feel good), but he talked me into it. The sex was great, but I still feel like we are in a slump. I need excitement y’all!!

Let’s face it.. I’m just NOT good at being sexy/seductive. He also doesn’t voice what he likes best. CAN A GIRL GET SOME ADVICE?

———UPDATE———

So, after reading up on others’ experiences and tips, I tried something a lot of women were talking about. I’ve learned a few things on here, lol. So, yesterday was my man’s birthday, so of course that calls for birthday sex, right? I tried to focus on pleasing him. We were in town all day yesterday, so I kept dropping him seductive hints, or slowly reaching for his private while driving down the road. It was driving him crazy. By the time we got home, he was ready to go at it. Long story short, one of the best sex sessions we have had. I tried to “stimulate his prostrate” or massage right behind his testicles while giving him a blow job.. I was a little nervous because I didn’t want him to think, “what the hell is she doing?!” I wasn’t sure if it would even work, but soon I heard him start moaning probably more than he ever has before. But i wasn’t sure if I was pushing hard enough or if I was pushing too hard.. Anyways, I wanted to tease the shit out of him and I succeeded.. he got to lay back and let me do all the work. He was spoiled last night.