Too big? To small? To many inputs.

29weeks and tired of hearing “your too big” yet my OB is telling me I’m not gaining enough.. (I’ve gained 8lbs now) I’m just blessed she’s healthy and just wish people would keep their damn rude comments to themselves. Sorry not sorry you feel I’m “to big” to be going on 7 months pregnant. 🙄🤰🏼😞

On a side note, my family is telling me I’m “to small” and “need to eat more because I’m hurting her”

Can people not just let somebody handle and enjoy their own pregnancy without putting an input? Like wtf. 🤷🏼‍♀️