Hey ladies, I need your advice. I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he’s too much of a gentleman in the bed. My last Long term lovers were really exciting in bed. But they were terrible boyfriends. This guy is an amazing boyfriend but right now the sex is boring. I’m not saying he’s boring but right now our sex is not exciting. I have a feeling he might be thinking the same thing but just won’t say anything. How do I bring it up that I want things to be a little more exciting and rough without hurting his feelings? By the way we are both very brutally honest in our relationship if we have issues. But for some reason this issue is hard for me to be brutally honest with. Please help me I feel trapped. How should I address it?