So my boyfriend and I just started having sex and I've never been with someone so amazing, we both agreed we don't want kids right now (hopefully in the future!) but protection is a must so we always use condoms and spermicide...

It kind of kills the mood after he's inserted spermicide into my vagina and put a condom on himself and by the time we actually start having sex we've already sort of lost the passion of the moment...

When we do different combos of oral and fingering/hands it's incredible but I really want intercourse to be that incredible too with the man I'm madly in love with, I'm gonna work with my gynecologist to see if I can get an IUD but for now I think the two forms of protection are necessary...

Any tips for sexy and passionate doubly protected sex???