Why?? Why not us?

Question

It seems like everyone around me is announcing their pregnancy or having their baby.... My husband and I have been TTC for 3 years. I just don’t get it. I don’t see how people who aren’t even trying to get pregnant do or people who abuse their children can get pregnant back to back... I just don’t understand. Everyone says, it will happen when it happens, they say that because it happen for them without them trying.
Does anyone understand? 😔

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Before my wife and I started our journey we had a talk about the fact that it might just be "us" and we had to be ok with that. She is my partner and my rock, if we get a baby it's really just a multiplication of our love, our lives and our love does not depend on it. I wish you all the luck in the world and can appreciate your frustration but its in the universe's hands and sometimes you gotta give it up to the universe!

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I understand , it's heart breaking because you want to be happy for them but deep down inside you keep thinking "I hope I'm next. "

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I understand 100% my husband and I are 27 and have been trying for 5 years.  We are both happy healthy people and I'm coming to a point where I'm starting to feel unhappy. I want to be happy for everyone around me having beautiful healthy babies but my heart just brakes and I go weak at the knees. I am a good person and I know I would be a great mom. why is this not happening for us? we have decided to keep trying 6 more months then we are going to try IUI.  . I'm just so ready for it to be my turn.

Why?? Why not us?

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