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I have started meeting up with a boy we are not going out but he does stuff to me even if I say no, but I'm too scared to do anything because he could tell everyone including my family, but I still go around to his house because I'm really scared he's going to black mail me he keeps asking for nudes but I don't do it, please help I don't know what to do because it's so awkward who can tell anyone, it's fucking fault it wouldn't happen if I didn't go around to his house!?!? Thoughts please

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You need to tell someone. What he's doing is sexual assault, if not rape. You've told him no and he's threatened you with black mail. This is in no way your fault.
Cut him off and tell anyone and everyone you trust. He should be reported before he does this to someone else.
And most important, I'm sorry you've gone through this. You're not alone.

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Whatever you do don’t send nudes it’s easier for him to black mail u that way!!! My ex still has my nudes after 3 years he told me. All of usudden stop messaging him and/or tell him you got your phone taken away for a month and I’m sure he’ll find someone else during them

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Yah girl that’s terrible, you gotta confide in someone and tell them and for the love of god please stop going to his house. That’s just adding to the problem. There’s no one in your family you can tell?

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That's sexual assault , I've had this done to me too , it's always best to speak up , even if it's just to your mum. I was scared she wouldn't understand but she did , it takes a massive weight off of your shoulders once you've told someone. I feel for you , stay strong 💖x

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He's close to my family and I don't want anyone to know he hasn't black mailed me yet but, Idek

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