What is with people..

I don't understand why everyone has to say how bad a spelling of a name is and they are going to be  correcting people their whole life and all this shit. Some people just don't like regular spelling I don't see the big deal. It's each to their own. I myself have had to spell my name and correct people all throughout school, it never bothered me. But I love my name so maybe that's why. I just don't get why you have to shoot someone down I see it a lot on these forums. Also people from different countries and states pronounce and spell names very differently. People have to stop being so rude