Mine can be so destructive but I've met his family and I see why. They all yell at each other instead of speaking and their marbles are quite loose... But he's trying so hard not to end up like his parents... They didn't believe in positive reinforcement and they all always were in separate rooms at all times... His dad always tells him how worthless he his... Which makes it difficult for me because he's so clingy and needy... And when I don't give him alllll of my attention he starts basically throwing man tantrums... Trying to break things and punching trees... He's 27, I'm 23, and I have a 3 yr old daughter that isn't his...