so me and my bf have had sex before so ik my cherry has been popped. and a few days after we had sex he fingered me and i bled a bit and didnt think anything of it. well this was about 3 months ago and we've had sex 2 times since then well last night he fingered me a little rough and multiple times and there was some blood in my underwear so after he went home i showered and then it stopped. was he just going to rough and tore something or should we take a break and give my lady a break?