1st FET. 16dp5dt. Still negative. Shall I give up?

JC

Hi ladies, not sure if I’ll get any response from this post but I feel like I should get something off my chest and maybe share with anyone who reads this.

This was my first ever

IVF

FET on January 17. The blast was a 5BC before the freeze but was a nice 5BB on the day of transfer. I did a hpt on Jan 23rd, 26th and 28th, no lines, all negative. Not even a vvvvfl 😞

I was told my blood test on the Jan 26 was “inconclusive” , it was borderline of 5.9 (whatever that means, but according to google only 5 or above is a positive, so I was still clinging onto hope thinking it might be a late developer).

Anyways, today, at 11days since the transfer, the clinic doctor said if it’s not showing up as yes by now it’s going to be a negative. He did say I can do another hpt in 2 days time, and I can still carry on taking the drugs, but is there any point anymore?

Just feeling quite down.......😢

Thank you for reading.