Am I wrong ?

Question

I’m currently in a relationship with the father of my child this year will be 4 years we’ve been together. We have our own place he’s the only one that works . But I would like access to his bank account so I know where we’re at . Am I Wrong for wanting that information? It causes the biggest fight in our relationship because I would like to know where we’re at financially. His excuse for not letting me know because I see that as spending money . A little advice would be great since I don’t have anyone to talk to and the people I can talk to tells everyone my business help ?

Answer

I would personally never give someone access to my bank account that I wasn’t married to. Having said that, I think it’s important to be on the same page financially when you’re in a serious relationship. So you’ll need to talk about it at length.

Answer

Why not get a joint account? Who actually pays the bills? If he does it all then I don’t really see what you need to know for.

Answer

Literally sounds just like my fiancé I’ve been with mine for 8 years and he refuses to tell me what’s in his account and says it’s bc I’ll want to spend it, i dont work either bc I’m a stay at home mom but it makes me mad bc there is times when he has gotten behind on his bills and tells me he’s all paid up and i found out he’s been lying and they weren’t, like idc if you didn’t pay a bill but at least tell the truth. It is very annoying bc i feel like i could manage his money better than he does so i totally get what your going through!

Answer

I feel like honestly he should let you know just for your own piece of mind. I wouldn’t be okay with my life being supported by a net I can’t see.

Answer

Personally, I don’t see the big deal. My husband and I have shared a bank account since we were just dating. Maybe he’s hiding what he’s spending 🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I wrong ?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products