How do you know he’s the one?

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I just got married in July, but I’m started to doubt that he is the person I’m supposed to be with. After marriage, how did everyone feel? I’m feeling resentment, irritation, anger, and distance from/toward my husband. I feel like he doesn’t give two fucks about me. Is this something to work through? Is giving up okay?

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This is something that should have been noticeable before getting married. I wouldn't think these feelings would just appear out of no where with no cause, unless there's an underlying problem that's not been spoken of.

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Marriage is hard. You won’t know if you found ‘the one’ until it’s over. Marriages end in one of two ways, death or divorce. I would definitely say don’t make any huge decisions that tie you to him forever if you’re not sure if it’s going to work out. Definitely don’t have a baby. I’d give it a little more time. But if ultimately you aren’t happy more than you are unhappy there is no shame in leaving. No one should stay in an unhappy marriage.

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Your the only one that knows how you feel. I’m assuming you got married because you love each other, so I’d say it’s worth working in. However, it sounds like you maybe already feel done. Have you talked to him at all about how you feel? Sometimes a series of misunderstandings and miscommunication can lead to feeling like that, and simply talking it out can change so much. That being said, I don’t know your situation at all so my advice isn’t worth much lol.

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It’s normal to have rough patches especially in the first few months. Give it time, give the benefit of the doubt, communicate, you’ll get through it! No matter who you marry there will always be problems! Just got to work through them together.

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i got married after 1 1/2 year of dating my ex. we both were in the military and everything was fine in 6 months of living together but then i got discharged and so all the financial responsibility was on him. he didnt stick around for too long cuz he couldnt handle the responsibility of caring for his family. I think it is best to talk to him about it. see if you both still have the same mind set on goals and future planning. If not i wouldnt stick around.

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My husband and I have been married for 7 years, and I’ve never doubted our love for each other. We fell in love within a couple of months, and there’s never been another for either of us. 💗
I’m not sure why here is so much resentment between you and your hubby, but maybe you should consider counseling to see what is normal or not, and what can be worked through or not. 🤷‍♀️

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I was in a similar situation myself, I got married to a guy id been with for 5-6 years and even weeks/months before the wedding I was having those feelings like 'is he really the one for me and do I really want to spend the rest of my life with this man' and I even felt as though I didn't really love him. I should've listened to my gut because I ended up moving out not long after we got married.
I know most people will say it's my own fault for going through with it which it is but I had this feeling, or he made me feel as if I would never find anyone better or any other man would put up with me. And not long after I moved out I met the most amazing guy I could've ever dreamed of, which is why I'm on this app! Because we're trying to have a baby now, and that wouldn't never happened if I stayed. 
Everyone's situation is different, someone people are better off without each other but some are better off working out their problems, it all depends on you and how you feel and what you feel is best for yourself ❤️

How do you know he’s the one?

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