worst mother ever according to....

so according to people on this app im a really shitty mother. i have 2 kids who are light of my life and i would do anything for them and take care of every need i am the 24/7 provider for 3 month old and a 16 month old. but here is where i am a bad mommy. i let my kids cry yes even the 3 month old i give both my kids the opportunity to learn to self sooth and i dont run at every cry. if i have gone down the list and tried everything and have cuddled and rocked with no avail i place my child down crying and walk away for a few minutes but apparently i am mentally and physically harming my kids. ive apparently done a bad job at being a parent. here are my kids who according to some ppl ive mentally and physically harm