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so i told my boyfriend and his response was, " you know that it could be dormant and go undetected for 20 years". I said yes, it could be dormant, meaning no symptoms but when tested, it can/will be detected. when i said that, he said he can't say that he didn't give it to me but he cant also say i didn't give it to him. He swore that i am the only person he has slept with since we got together. I want to do a lie detector test, but i already know the truth; i just want him to own up to it.

He's not upset that he has to get tested, he's upset that wanted to talk to him face to face vs. over the phone. So let's just say i have not spoken to him for almost a day now.

I am 33 years old and never had a STD. Anyway, like I do every year when I have my PAP, I get tested for all STD's. Each year everything is negative. Well this year Bam im positive for Chlamydia. I've only had sex with my boy friend since we've been together (since December 2, 2016) and had sex for the first time Jan 27, 2017. I'm sad and mad at the same time. I have not seen him today and I'm not sure how to approach the situation. i dont want to gi in fuming but i dont want to go in and feel like im ok with what he did to me. any advice would be appreciated

Mrs. G,

we've both been tested since we've been together and both came back negative. Also, we've been having unprotected sex because we are trying to conceive.