Why would he pick video games over sex? Or a BJ? Or anything sexual?!

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Im really starting to feel a little lost here. Ive been replaced by Rocket League. If you’re not familiar, its a soccer game that you use an RC car to control the ball. This has been going on over 3yrs now, and his hygiene is lacking, he was always clean and ready! Lol. Whats wrong with me? Why does he turn me away?

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There isn’t anything wrong with you. You need to have a serious discussion with him.

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Oh man I have been through this/am going through this with my hubby! 
Let me tell you it is a journey in itself and it takes insane communication and patience from both ends. 
We have been together for 6 years and after about three years is when I started to notice it bother me more and more. I tried a lot of different things and approaches to have him cut down. One of his big excuses was that it helps him relax and also he’s from the opposite side of the country and he would tell me it’s the way he hangs out with his bff and brother. 
Long story short I ended up having a serious come to Jesus talk with him and I let him know again how bad it bothers me. Not only for the sake of our relationship but for his future relationship with his future children. (We are TTC.) I told him I don’t want him to miss his child’s first steps because he “can’t pause right now” or have his child’s memories be of him playing games all the time. 
First of all not the best example I want for my kids. And I don’t want them to experience the familiar lonely/unwanted feeling I get when he chooses video games. 
In our come to Jesus talk I told my hubby that there needs to be some serious re-evaluation and we needed to try couples counseling. Not because we are broken but because I felt depleted trying everything I could think of and I wanted a neutral party to look in from the outside and give us some tools we have yet to think about. So that’s where we are and so far so good. 
But man oh man I know where you’re coming from. You guys can do this🙌

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Guys have wants besides sex. It doesnt mean something is wrong with you, though only talking to him can actually rule that out.

Why would he pick video games over sex? Or a BJ? Or anything sexual?!

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