oral sex

so its been 5 years since I've given a bj. yes that long. so on Friday the guy I am seeing and I are getting a hotel room. its an early Valentine's day thing. anyways, I would really like to do give him one. like really really like too, but I have no idea what I am actually freaking doing. I did watch some porn videos but there are so many damn ways to give a bj apparently.

so ladies, what kinds of things really turn your man on when it comes to this. ive heard looking up at the guy while your doing it is a serious freaking turn on but other than that I'm clueless! help!!