Flu shot and pregnant.

So I had a baby in 2016 but I was never offered the flu shot. I myself don't want it. And I don't want my kids to have it either. I'm very iffy on it. ( I don't want to hear WHY I should get it I definitely don't want it) but I went in for an appointment for the first time for my second 2 days ago. At the end of the appointment my doctor ( I already did not like her she was very rude, and she was very quick not very helpful) came in and said "Well I don't want to have to admit you for the flu anytime soon so I think you should gwt the shot" I kindly said hm no I think I won't do it. And she says "I think you should. I bet I'll be seeing you in a week or two to admit you in for the flu. So I think I'll put it in for you to get" I said NO but thank you. I don't want it. AGAIN she says "Ok I'll put it in for you for the next visit" like are you fucking kidding me?!?! I said no already TWICE. Wtf is your problem?? Is it normal for doctors to push it on you like that? I feel I want to switch doctors because of how rude she was being. (Besides the flu shot incident before when she was doing my ultrasound she was having a hard time finding the baby even tho from the beginning I saw the sac she asked me if I was sure I wasn't having a miscarriage like wtf)