Is this disrespectful to my boyfriend? What should I do? PLEASE READ

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My ex has been texting me for a few days saying how depressed he is and needs someone to talk to. I’ve been helping him through cause he has no one else. Is that wrong? Should I tell my boyfriend? I’m worried my boyfriend might get mad when it’s nothing. I’m insanely in love with my boyfriend and my ex knows that, he just needs a friend right now. I’m worried that he’ll attempt suicide cause he’s had bad thoughts in the past. I’m just telling him everything will be okay. Should I stop because he’s my ex & he’s not my problem anymore? Should I make sure my boyfriend is okay with it? I need some advice. 
PS sorry for the misspellings in this poll I just needed it to fit

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It’s not your job anymore to care for your ex. If he needs helps, he can contact suicide prevention lines. Tell him this and let him know you care for him but from a distance.
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Yes tell your boyfriend, if he finds out another way it’ll seem like you’re hiding it from him.

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Tells you what kind of a person someone is when they say you should ignore someone who is suicidally depressed...
Tell your bf you're talking to him, but just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean he can control who you talk to.  Explain the situation entirely, and in a healthy relationship, he will understand.  There's nothing wrong with having friends.

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You’re not doing anything wrong but you should tell him because it’s best if he finds out through you than somewhere else. Just to avoid a big misunderstanding

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honestly you have to put yourself in your boyfriends shoes

how would you feel if he was talking to his ex giving advice?  personally hes your ex so you should not be communicating with him at all especially if you are in a relationship rule #1

not to come off rude. tell your man what is going on because you dont want to be caught and he takes it the wrong way. i would cut it off fast and sinply tell your ex out of respect for your relationship. advice him to go get help

move on and enjoy your amazing relationship❤

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The fact that you feel the need to hide it should be the biggest sign that you shouldn’t be doing it

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Telling him and having it in the open is the best way to go, the moment you start hiding things is when someone ends up hurt.

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You should tell your ex’s family that he is not safe. Itma not your job and also they might be able to look after him more than you can. They might be able to offer him treatment or help.

I would tell your boyfriend that you’ve been put in this uncomfortable position but that you feel that due to the circumstances you want to be there for him

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Help him as much as you can. encourage him to speak to somebody about his thoughts and feelings. you wluld feel really bad if he hurt himself knowing he came to you for help.

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I think it is disrespectful & possibly even a ploy on your ex's side.

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Girl you need to stop talking to him. He can find someone else to talk to. It’s just really disrespectful to your new boyfriend. 
If it were me, and I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex, I’d be pissed!!

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