Friend problem
Okay so i have this “friend” that got mad at me for being honest with her and she removed me from sc. Let me tell y’all how this went down.
Okay so my friend ( mel ) we’ve been friends since junior year of highschool. At the beginning of our friendship she was like “i like honesty so don’t be afraid to be honest “ and I was like “ alright cool cause I’m a blunt type of person “ so yesterday she had posted something on her story saying “ no new friends. Friends always do me wrong “ and I texted her saying “ what’s wrong ?” And she was like “nothing “ and i was like “ obviously it’s something if you post it on your story “ so she left me on open and I was like “ so you just gonna leave me on open ?” And she was like “ it’s not about you “ and I was like “okay if not me then who ?” And she was like “ I don’t feel like explaining my self to you “ and I was like “ am I not your friend?” And she was like “ you barely check up on me or ask how I’m doing. You don’t even care.” And I was like “ that’s comerte bs. “ I’ve helped her through a break up which she dated my best friend and it didn’t end well so I was there to help her and I even stopped being friends with my best friend for her. Obviously I don’t check up on her 24/7 but I do here and there. ( btw me and my best friend talked it out like young adults and were friends again) but anyways I told her to quit her passive aggressiveness. That she was acting like a Tania; tania was this one friend we had and she was not a good friend. She was always passive aggressive. But anyways she was like “ I can’t believe you compared me to her. You’ve crossed the line.” And I was like “ I’m just being honest here .” And she was like “ I don’t need this pessimistic vibes. “ and i was like “ it’s not pessimistic. It’s realism and honesty. Don’t get the two mixed up.” And she was like “don’t waste your breath” and while I was typing “let me know if you wanna stop being friends. It’s your call.” She removed me from sc. All because she took it up the ass cause she’s sensitive af and didn’t like the honesty I gave her. I’m done trying.
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