Quitting

So we have tried for 4 months yes not long but this was our last month of trying for a few months due to moving at the end of the month and trying to get settled down there so we are putting it on a hold. How do you not think about it? And just give it time? I’m just so tired of the negative and testing and I know this break will help me and my husband rekindle. I get to stay home with our first born for awhile too. So how do you not think about trying?