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So your dating around and you meet someone who is attractive but the more you interact with them you learn their personality is horrible. Does this make them ugly or less attractive on your eyes? And vice versa with someone who’s less attractive in society’s standard and they have a great personality and many redeeming qualities does that make them more attractive in your eyes?

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Absolutely. I’ve met some downright gorgeous people but the moment they open their mouth, they’re ugly. 
Same for the reverse.

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my husband uses a wheelchair most of the time he's out of the house. many people look straight through him as a result, or only see the chair and not the human sitting in it. But he is the kindest, most emotionally sensitive man I know, and he will use his last bit of strength to protect his family. I feel like the luckiest girl to be married to him, and clearly find him physically attractive despite his not exactly gorgeous body since I'm pregnant with our second child.

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This may sound horrible, but I didn’t find my husband that attractive when we first met. I always had a thing for ‘fluffy’ men, and he was not that. He persisted for six months before I finally gave him a chance. & I’m so glad I did. He’s the most beautiful person inside and out, and I can’t imagine how I once didn’t even give him a second look!

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Im kind of proud that 145 votes in and no one said no

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My husband is conventionally attractive, but it was his character, intelligence and humor that made me find him worth my time. I wouldn't have continued to find him attractive if he were a jerk. A great personality definitely can make anyone more attractive.

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You can grow to love an ugly face, and grow to hate a pretty one just the same.

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My husband wasn’t  exactly what I thought  “my type” was but once we started talking in a class we had together, I knew he was the one. Some people find him unattractive but I think he’s very good looking 😏

I mean, look at those two 😍

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Yea I've thought people were SO bad when I first meet them and then my opinion flips when I get to know them.
 Like I can't even fathom how I found them attractive at one point in time. The reverse is also true.

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Looks alone leave me cold. I need time to know someone before I feel a real attraction.

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I find them instantly ugly. You can be super gorgeous, but if your personality is ugly so are you. And it works the other way around.

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