😣 i need her hair to grow

My baby girl looks like a boy haha. Bad enough she has a twin brother even in pink people ask "boys?" 😒 She rips off anything I put on her head...hat, bows, head bands. Thankfully just recently I put her hair in pig tails and it works...sorta. wish there was a trick like coconut oil that would help it grow haha. Anyone have cute hair ideas!? I can't to the 1 pony tail ats pretty much parted to the side, straight forward or pig tails 😣😣 We have a photoshoot coming up and I'm clueless what do do with it!