overbearing mother🙄

I CANNOT STAND MY MOM. I'm nearly 23 and ever.single.time. I think my mom is actually turning the corner and going to be a supportive mom/best friend NOPE! long story short every time something good happens in my life she gets pissed and wishes the worst on my family and i. Like when I told her I was pregnant (i was 21 at the time, moved out and fully supporting myself) she told me how awful that Is, yelled at me and told me I ruined my wedding and life so young. never once supported me in my breastfeeding journey (13 months nursing) when I got my 1st job making 25 an hour she went as far as trying to make me miss my interview. now my SO has a chance to make 75k a year. SEVENTY FIVE THOUSAND! and possibly more in the years to come. that may not be a lot to some of you but right now we both make around 40k a year. and she told me she honestly hopes he doesn't get it but whatever is ment to be will be. oh and I somehow messed up my credit super bad over the last year and now have to rebuild it before I can get a much needed new car so my SO and I agreed If I put 50$ tawrds the payment every month I can drive it 80% of the time. she and my step dad litterarly harassed me trying to talk me out or it. I.FUCKING.CAN'T. with her.