second baby labor question


due 28th had my check up today 2 cm. Doctor wasn't gentle and last time she did that my first born came that night. I've been working on getting the house clean today think I over did stomach has been feeling very hard and that burning sensation when you work out your abs and back a bit tingly...been trying to look up if second time labor feels like the first time (menstrual cramps/ constipation). but all in getting online is that it's faster...we live 25 min away from our hospital. so I'm I'm wondering if anyone knows if it's the same feeling as the first time.