So I'm not sure why I'm writing this but maybe it help clear my mind. my wife and I are wanting to start trying but hate the fact that with me being in the army they will only pay for the once I'm pregnant part.. I'm so afraid that we will spend so much money trying and it wont happen.. I want kids so bad.. We both do. but I feel like between samples, insemination amd everything we are just going to get hurt.. I dont know what to do, or how to even begin to get the ball rolling.. Hopefully the next couple weeks will help straighten these thoughts out. Thanks for listening:)