Cramps and blood

It is currently 2:49 in the morning and I am in the shower because apparently Mother Nature hates me and woke me up at 2:30 with a crime scene.i know it’s natural and I know it happens but I wish Mother Nature could just wait till I wake up to try and take its course because I am 13 (14 in 10 days) and I don’t want to deal with this right now. My first period I had it was so light and I had no cramps. My body decided to skip 3-4 cylcles and now it looks like I killed someone and I feel like I am going to die because of how bad my cramps are. Yay I love being a female. On another note does anyone have a good way to not bleed through as much. Also what are some good ways to relieve cramps. My mother already talked to me about some of this and got me midol and it doesn’t work for me.