Family drama

Im 21 weeks pregnant and loving every minute, my pregnancy is super laid back, everyone is different whether they do announcements, posts, pictures ect. My partner and i are simple and personal.

However my aunty and cousins are super demanding and think they are entitled for me to call them everytime i go to an appointment, scan etc.... well maybe they just care alot right? .... wrong.

Super judgmental, bossy, opinionated and its so frustrating..

For example my aunty is soo against finding out the gender because her daughter didn’t. Every time i have talked to her prior to finding out she was always forcing her opinion on me and be so negative about my decision and now that i have found out she is interrogating me as to why i didn’t ring her straight away when i found out.

Why do they feel so entitled to know everything about my pregnancy, they have msgd me things like “I would have expected you to ring me” etc

How do i approach them ?? What do i say??

For me the only people i call to tell exciting details is my immediate family and i didn’t think it was such a big deal to anyone else.